Self-Improvement and Interesting Knowledge

I try to write the articles from both male and female points of view, but if there is an article written from a male perspective instead of female for example, please realize that all these articles are applicable to both men and women.

I will be adding more and more as time goes on and the articles will touch on more complex ideas as time goes on as well. They are meant to encourage, entertain, and educate.

  • Secrets of the Alpha Male

    What is it that women want and why is it that they always seem to end up with jerks? In a previous article Understanding Human Attraction, I discussed how we should use the idea of a complex society, tribe or pack to understand what human beings are attracted to and why. I mentioned in that article that, in these complex groups, women are interested in the most dominant male of the tribe or pack. In this article I would like to go into this in greater depth. A woman fundamentally wants to survive just like any other creature on the

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  • Do Blondes Have More Fun?

    There has not been a more heated discussion than; Do blondes really have more fun? The answer to the question is simple; If you believe that those that get more attention have more fun, then yes blondes definitely have more fun. Scientist have been debating the whole blonde issue for years now and there have been a number of theories that have been postulated to try and clear up the whole debate, in a more scientific bend of course. The latest and seemingly most popular, was the theory that was presented by a scientist called Peter Frost. His theory states

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  • Get Noticed

    Getting noticed begins by creating a persona or look that is so enchanting that it actually compels people to look at you and pay attention to you. This ‘persona’ has to be well thought out and must be executed in a methodical fashion, very much like an election campaign. You must first create the look of this persona and perfect this new guise until it becomes incredibly appealing to all senses. If you read 'Do Blondes Have More Fun?', then you have an idea of how important a commanding visual presence can be. In order to develop this visual presence,

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  • Body Language of the Alpha Male

    I’m not sure if you have heard of the power of body language, but if you haven’t let me tell you that its pretty amazing stuff. People that have a good understanding of body language can read others like a book and it appears that most(perhaps all) of our internal reality is expressed either consciously or subconsciously through body language. What is perhaps even more amazing; by consciously controlling our body language, we can actually control our feelings and how we interrelate with the world around us. For example if you were to smile right now for no good reason,

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  • A Positive Attitude Gets Girls

    I know that it is something that has been smilingly done to death but even when it comes to getting dates and picking up girls; YOU MUST HAVE A POSITIVE ATTITUDE.A positive attitude is not just a type to thought process that you have or have to fight all day to maintain. A positive attitude is a commitment that you make to yourself. This commitment is incredibly important when it comes to getting along with girls.I am certain that most guys are familiar with negative response that most girls have when you pay any kind of attention to them. A

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  • Bragging Gets You Dates

    Men tend to think that bragging is somehow a bad underhanded way to get a date. I will tell you the only way that bragging is underhanded; It’s underhanded when you are lying, period. Think of yourself as a product that you might be selling. I know this does sound kind of shallow in a sense but you must realize that any time that you are meeting someone else with the intent of getting something from them, whether that be love, friendship, or a date; you are essentially selling yourself to them. You should not think of this as a

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  • Start a Conversation With Anybody

    The best way that you can begin a conversation with people that you have never met is to convey to them as clearly as possible how much respect you have for them and their opinion. The best way to do this is to let the other person dictate a topic of interest. You can be sure that whatever topic that they choose will be a topic that they are deeply interested in.Often times others will be hesitant to start a conversation with someone that they have never met. It is therefore up to you to break the ice and start

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  • Pay someone a compliment and get a date

    If you follow the ‘Pick up artist’ community and try to practice their techniques, you will know that the last thing that most of them recommend is to give someone a complement. Most of them actually tell you to do the opposite so as put yourself in a superior position to your love interest. This technique actually has a name, it’s called a NEG.While it is definitely true that you must do everything that you can to not seem desperate to the opposite sex, the Neg technique is actually a flawed premise to the regular dater. This technique was really

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  • Become Memorable And Get More Dates

    Whenever you interact with anyone, you are always leaving a memory of yourself with them. Realize now that it is your responsibility to leave the best possible impression of yourself so that when the people that you are interested in look back, after you have left, they are filled with a very positive memory of you. Always think of leaving this unforgettable memory of yourself with the opposite sex. Creativity is a wonderful way to do this. Women deeply enjoy men that have a creative and passionate streak. Sometimes just by going into your creative weirdo, you can come up

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  • Rules of the Successful Dater

    Dating can be a difficult game to play. You are sticking your neck out there in the hopes of making a meaningful connection or perhaps in the hopes of connecting with someone sexually. This is very natural, we all need companionship.Unfortunately dating can sometimes feel like you are going to war. And most of the help material out there will have you believe that all men and women are selfish, emotional creatures that are out there to satisfy some crazy natural selection process. It all has a way of reducing dating to “The Origin Of Species”…But dating doesn't have to

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  • Learn To Listen And Get A Date

    Do you want to know how to go from someone you have just casually met to a hot date? It’s easy to get a date with a “hottie” if you are just able to do one very simple thing; LISTEN. Let’s say that you have just been introduced to a really hot girl/guy that you find very striking, and you begin to make small talk. In order to make a great impression and to have that person fall for your charm, all you have to do is pay attention to what they have to say. But this is a skill

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  • Nice Girls Do And Here Is How

    Nice girlsare always the most beautiful. They seem unspoiled by the silliness of pop fashion and they seem to keep a level head while all others are desperately trying to replicate the Hilton lifestyle. Their skin is less dry and brittle because they don't seem to have the need to add a pound of make-up to their faces or to fake tan all the time. They usually have a true sense of personal fashion; they are not following one pop trend or another but are simply wearing things that they like. I have deep admiration for the nice girls of

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  • Top 7 Things Women Judge Men On When Dating

    When it comes to dating, you always have to be on your toes. This is at least the case until you both know each other better. Here is a list of the top 7 things that a girl will notice about you when you are on a date. Now that you have the list, make sure that you are prepared next time you go out by making sure that you are looking great in her eyes:1. Is he well Dressed? make sure that you have a good wardrobe; women are interested in clothes and style and if you don’t look

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  • Top 7 Things Guys Judge Girls On When On A Date

    While dating, guys are far sharper then they might appear. Make sure that you stay on your toes. Here is a list of the top seven things guys notice while out on a date. With the list in hand, make sure that you are prepared for the next date.Does she have a nice smile? He’ll be nervous and the first thing he will see is your smile. Make sure you have a nice, confident, happy, smile waiting for him. Does she have a nice body? Men are men so he will notice your body. Wear something nice that makes you

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  • How To Flirt

    It is really important, whether you are a man or woman, that you learn how to flirt. The reason for this is that flirting is the best way to break the ice in order to get to know people that you are in interested in. Flirting is as natural as a bird showing its feathers or as a horny frog singing a midnight Serenade.Flirting can really be said to be in art. There's great subtlety and delicacy in how you approach this art and there is definitely a learning curve that can only be surpassed with in the field experience.

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  • The 2 Types Of Voice Tones To Use When Meeting Others

    As a dater you need to pay attention to your voice. You need to realize that it has a great impact on the person that you are communicating with. The voice can let another person know how confident you are or what you are feeling at the moment. The voice has many subtleties and they all have different meanings that are picked up by others whenever we communicate.There is no need though to become too intricate and this understanding. What you need to understand is that there are at least two different inflections that you need to be aware of.

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  • Great Relationships Start With Rapport

    Relationships are a very important thing. They are the foundation of most of our lives and they bring us joy and can even bring us success. As a dater relationships are the main focus of all your efforts; as a dater what you are basically trying to do is to try to build a very good relationship with someone else. This relationship has certain conditions and these conditions must be desired by both parties.In order to build a good relationship with another, you need to be able to learn how to create rapport with that person. Rapport is the ability

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  • If You Can Get Them to Laugh, You Can Get a Date With Anyone!

    Humor is one of the greatest things that you can use when you're trying to get a date. It is a communication strength that you need to master in order to get the opposite sex interested in you. If you can get the person that you are interested in to laugh, you can get that person to date you. Building rapport, establishing a one-on-one connection, with another person is incredibly easy with humor. Humor is an incredible bonding mechanism that allows people to ‘get real’. The act of laughing and smiling means that the other person is relaxed enough that

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  • How to Call Someone for a Date Part 1

    The first time that you call a person for a date can be incredibly scary. Even the follow-up to a second date can often be quite difficult. The only way to get over this fear is to be well prepared so with that in mind here are some points that you should keep in mind.Always remember to be very well prepared:before you make the call make sure that you know why you are calling; you want a date with them why? Where? At what time?Create this small script so that you know what you will say when you have the

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  • Understanding Human Attraction

    According to science, and the law of electromagnetism, "opposites attract". But is this a human law of attraction as well? It could be? This might explain the reason why you always see all those classical teams like Abbott and Costello or Tom and Jerry. But just as often we end up seeing that those that tend to stay together are very similar. This would explain why two best friends tend to be very similar; they have to share similar interest to be friends at all. Also there is that weird happening where old married couples seem to look more and

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  • The Importance of Internal And External Beauty

    Many like to believe that looks are not important. That a good person is involved with more than just physical appearance. That judgment should not be based on external appearance but should actually be based on performance and what the person is like inside. You must realize though that external appearance is important because there are many that will judge you on what you look like. Unless you live alone in the middle of nowhere, it is impossible for you to go a day without having someone else judge you by how you look. External appearance is very important it

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  • Question To Get Your Look Just Right

    In an earlier article I discussed the importance of external appearance. I said that from a spiritual perspective, external appearance is also important because external appearances is created from internal beliefs. As such, your external appearance is really an indicator of what you believe about yourself. That you are a natural internal sculptor of your external appearance. If you have read that article and you did get a chance to work on your beliefs systems, this article will show you some further questions that you can ask yourself to further improve how you feel about yourself and in that way

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  • Good Relationships Start By Knowing Yourself

    Good relationships are key and a fundamental in everyone's life. Even if you are completely alone and do not have a relationship with anyone, you actually do have a relationship with others; this relationship is a relationship of no relation. You are choosing in one way or another to separate yourself from everyone else. If you wish to be alone, and this is a choice that you have made and a choice that you like, then you should stick by this choice, hopefully finding personal fulfillment through it. It is also the case that you might like to have others

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  • How to Avoid Conflict in a Relationship

    Relationships can be quite trying sometimes. Sharing a life with the love of your life requires a lot of growth and compromise by both partners. While there are many things that you will probably agree on, there are also many things that you will require some kind of compromise from both you. There is a fine balance between compromise and tolerate which must be carefully examined. A relationship, or any partnership for that matter, requires honesty and good communication. In order to lessen conflict; * Learn to appreciate your partners style and attitude about certain things. We are all different after

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